10. சீஷத்துவமும் திருமணமும்

10. rP\j;JtKk; jpUkzKk;

guNyhf uh[;aj;jpdpkpj;jk; jq;fis mz;zHfshf;fpf;nfhz;ltHfSk; cz;L. ,ij Vw;Wf;nfhs;s ty;ytd; Vw;Wf;nfhs;sf;fltd; vd;whH (kj;.19:12).

Xt;nthU rP\Dk; re;jpf;fNtz;ba xU nghpa Nfs;tp jpUkzj;ijg;gw;wpaJ. Njtd; jd;id ,y;yw tho;f;iff;fh> my;yJ jpUkzkhfhj epiyf;fh vjw;fhf mioj;jpUf;fpwhH vd;w Nfs;tpf;F mtd; tpil fhzNtz;Lk;. ,J fHj;jhplj;jpypUe;J jdpg;gl;l tpjj;jpy; milag; ngWk; topelj;Jjiyg; nghWj;jJ. ,Jgw;wp xUtH kw;nwhUtUf;Fr; rl;lk; tFf;f KbahJ. ,e;j kpf Kf;fpaf; fhhpaj;jpy; MNyhrid$w chpikNahL miog;Ng ,d;wpj; jiyapLtJ Mgj;jhdJ.

gy Nehf;fq;fs; epiwNtWk;gb kdpj ,dj;jpw;fhfj; Njtd; jpUkzj;ij Vw;gLj;jpdhH vd;gJ NjtDila thHj;ijapd; nghJthd Nghjid.

1. el;gpw;fhfTk; ,d;gj;jpw;fhfTk; mJ Vw;wLj;jg;gl;lJ. kD\d; jdpikahapUg;gJ ey;yjy;y (Mjp.2:28) vd;W Njtd; fz;lhH.

2. kDf;Fyk; ngUFtjw;fhf mJ jpl;lkplg;gl;lJ. ePq;fs; gYfpg;ngUfp> G+kpia epug;Gq;fs; (Mjp. 2:28) vd;w fHj;jUila fl;lisapy; ,J Fwpg;gplg;gl;Ls;sJ.

3. FLk;gj;jpYk; rKjhaj;jpYk; J}a;ikiaf; fhf;Fk;gb ,e;j xOq;F Vw;gl;lJ. Ntrpj;jdk; ,uhjgbf;F mtdtd; jd; nrhe;j kidtpia...... cilatdhapUf;ff;fltd; (1nfhhp. 7:2).

J}a tho;f;iff;Fk;> fpwp];Jtplk; fhl;Lk; gf;jp> mtUf;Fr; nra;Ak; Copak; ,tw;wpw;Fk; jpUkzk; Vw;wjy;y vd;W NjtDila thHj;ij Nghjpg;gjpy;iy. Mdhy; tpthfk; ahtUf;Fs;Sk; fdKs;sjhAk;> tpthf kQ;rk; mRrpg;glhjjhAkpUg;gjhf (vgp. 13:4) vd;w thHj;ij cWjpaha; epw;fpd;wJ. xz;baha; ,Ug;gjpYk; ,UtH $bapUg;gJ eyk; vd;w gpurq;fpapd; $w;iwj; jpUkzj;ijf; Fwpf;Fk; xd;whff; nfhs;syhk; (gpu.4:9). rpwg;ghf mtHfs; ,UtUk; fHj;jUf;fhfr; nra;ag;gLk; Copaj;jpy; ,izf;fg;gl;lhy; ,t;trdk; kpfg; nghUj;jkhf ,Uf;Fk;. If;fpakhfr; nra;ag;gLk; nraypy; mjpf typik tpsq;FfpwJ vd;gij cgh.32:30 Fwpg;gpLfpwJ. XUtd; Mapuk; Ngiuj; Juj;Jfpwhd;. ,UtH gjpdhapuk; Ngiu Xl;Lfpd;wdH.

vdpDk;> jpUkzk; kDf;Fyj;jpw;fhd Njtrpj;jkhf ,Ue;jhYk; mJ xt;nthU MSf;Fk; mtUila rpj;jkhf ,Uf;fNtz;ba mtrpakpy;iy. khw;wKbahj XH chpikahf mJ fUjg;gbDk;> fHj;juhfpa ,NaRtpd; rP\d; mtUila Nritapy; ftdk; rpjwhky; <Lglj;jf;fjhf me;j cupikiaj; Jwe;J tpLtijj; njhpe;Jnfhs;syhk;.

jkf;fhf mz;zHfisg;Nghy Mfptpl;ltHfs; jk;;Kila ,uh[;aj;jpy; ,Ug;ghHfs; vd;gijf; fHj;juhfpa ,NaR Fwpg;gpl;lhH.

jhapd; tapw;wpypUe;J mz;zHfsha;g; gpwe;jtHfSk; cz;L. kD\Hfshy; mz;zfHfshf;fg;gl;ltHfSk; cz;L. guNyhf ,uh[;aj;jpdpkpj;jk; jq;fis mz;zHfshf;fpf;nfhz;ltHfSk; cz;L. ,ij Vw;Wf;nfhs;s ty;ytd; Vw;Wf;nfhs;sf;fltd;> vd;whH (kj;.19:12).

fPo;f;fz;l ,uz;L cz;ikfspd; tpisthf xUtH jd; tpUg;gg;gb nra;Jnfhs;Sk; nghUe;jidNa ,J.

1. jpUkzk; nra;Jnfhs;shkypUf;f NjtDila topelj;jypd; czHT.

2. FLk;g tho;f;ifapd; nghWg;Gfs; ,y;yhky; jd;id Kw;wpYk; fHj;jUila Copaj;jpw;Fg; gilf;f Ntz;Lnkd;w thQ;ir.

nja;tPf miog;gpd; jpl ek;gpf;if Ntz;Lk; (1nfhhp. 7:7). jd;idj; jhNd fl;Lg;gLj;jpf; nfhs;tjw;fhd fpUigia fHj;jH je;jUSthH vd;W rP\d; cWjpahapUf;f ,e;j miog;gpd; epr;rak; Ntz;Lk;.

,uz;lhtJ> ,J jd; tpUg;gg;gb jPHkhdpf;fpw xd;whf ,Uf;fNtz;Lk;. jpUkzk; nra;af;$lhnjd;gJ vq;Nf rigapd; fl;Lg;ghlhf ,Uf;fpwNjh mq;Nf J}a;ikapd;ikAk;> jPa XOf;fKk; mjpfk; fhzg;glf;$Lk;.

jpUkzkhfhj xUtH ,uh[htpd; Ntiyf;Fj; jd;id Kw;wpYk; fhzpf;ifahf;f KbAk; vd;w cz;ikiag; gTy; typAWj;jpdhH.

ePq;fs; ftiyaw;wtHfshapUf;f tpUk;GfpNwd;. tpthfkpy;yhjtd; fHj;jUf;F vg;gbg; gphpakhapUf;fyhnkd;W> fHj;jUf;FhpaitfSf;fhff; ftiyg;gLfpwhd;. tpthfk; gz;zpdtd; jd; kidtpf;F vg;gbg; gphpakhapUf;fyhnkd;W cyfj;jpw;FhpaitfSf;fhff; ftiyg;gLfpwhd; (1nfhhp. 7:32>33).

,f;fhuzj;jpdhy;jhd; mtH jpUkzkhfhjtHfSk;> tpjitfSk; jhk; ,Ue;jgbNa (kzkhfhky;) ,Ue;JtpLtJ eyk; vd;w jk; tpUk;gj;ijj; njhptpj;jhH (1nfhhp. 7:7-8)

Vw;fndNt jpUkzkhdtHfSk; fhyk; FWfpdjhdgbahy; fpwp];Jit mwptpf;Fk; Ntiyf;F midj;ijAk; fPo;g;gLj;jNtz;Lnkd;W mg;Ngh];jyd; tw;GWj;jpdhH.

NkYk; rNfhjuNu> ehd; nrhy;Yfpwnjd;dntdpy;> ,dptUk; fhyk; FWfpdjhdgbapdhy;> kidtpfs; cs;stHfs; kidtpfspy;yhjtHfs; NghyTk;> mOfpwtHfs; mohjtHfs; NghyTk;> re;Njh\g;gLfpwtHfs; re;Njh\g;glhjtHfs; NghyTk;> nfhs;SfpwtHfs; nfhs;shjtHfs; NghyTk>; ,t;Tyfj;ij mDgtpf;fpwtHfs; mijj; jfhj tpjkha; mDgtpahjtHfs; NghyTk; ,Uf;fNtz;Lk;: ,t;Tyfj;jpd; Nt\k; fle;J NghfpwNj (1nfhhp. 8:29-31).

XUtd; jd; FLk;gg; nghWg;Gfisj; Jwe;J kidtp kf;fisf; iftpl;Ltpl;Lj; jPBnud xU kp\ndhpahfr; nrd;WtplNtz;Lk; vd;W ,jd; nghUsy;y. Mdhy; xUtd; ,y;yw ,d;gq;fSf;fhfTk; FLk;gk; jUk; kd epiwTf;fhfTk; thof;$lhJ vd;gJ ,jd; nghUs;. fpwp];JTf;F ,uz;lhk; ,lj;ijf; nfhLg;gjw;F jd; kidtp kf;fisf; fhl;b Nghf;Fr;nrhy;yf;$lhJ.

Rp.b.];ll; vd;gtH jhd; kzf;f epr;rapj;jpUe;j ngz; jd;idg; gw;wpNa mjpfkhf epidj;Jf;nfhz;bUe;J fHj;juuhfpa ,NaRTf;F jd; tho;f;ifapy; Kjy; ,lk; nfhLf;fj; jtwptpLthNwh vd;W mQ;rpdhH. vdNt> mts; ehs;NjhWk; nrhy;ypg; ghHj;Jf;nfhs;sj;jf;fjhf xU rpW nra;Ais ,aw;wpf;nfhLj;jhH. jd;idf;fhl;bYk; ,NaR mtSf;F mUikahdtH vd;w nghUs;nfhz;l nra;As; mJ.

kDf;Fyj;ij jq;fs; nfhs;iff;F mbg;gLj;Jk; XNu nghpaNtiyf;Fj; jq;fs; FLk;gf; fhhpaq;fisAk; fPo;g;gLj;Jfpd;wdH nghJTilikf; fl;rpapdH. fhHld; MHdhy;L yhd;];Nly; vd;gtH ,jw;F XH vLj;Jf;fhl;L. u\;a ehl;bd; xw;wd; vd;w ,q;fpyhe;jpy; ,k;kdpjd; ifJ nra;ag;gl;lhH. mtH kidtp mtUf;F vOjpa xU fbjKk;> mtSf;F mtH vOjpa MW gf;fk; nfhz;l gjpYk; NghyPrhH ifapy; fpilj;jd. mtH kidtp ,t;thW vOjpapUe;jhs;. tho;f;if vt;tsT mePjp cs;sjha;f; fhzg;gLfpwJ. ePq;fs; Ntiy nra;Jnfhz;bUg;gijAk; mJ cq;fs; flik vd;gijAk; ehd; ed;F mwpe;jpUf;fpNwd;. cq;fs; Ntiyapy; cq;fSf;Fg; gw;W cz;L vd;gJk; mij KOkdj;NjhLk; epiwNtw;w KaYfpwPHfs; vd;gJk; vdf;Fj; njhpAk;. MapDk; vd; tpthjk; ngz;zpd; Kiwg;gb FWfpa kdq; nfhz;ljhf ,Uf;fpwJ. ehd; mjpfkhf f\;lg;gl;Lf; nfhz;bUf;fpNwd;. vd;id vg;gb Nerpf;fpwPHfs; vd;gJgw;wp vdf;F vOJq;fs;. xU Ntis mJ vdf;F Mwjyspf;Fk;.

yhd;];Nly; vOjpa gjpypd; xU ghfk;: vdf;F xNu xU tho;ifjhd; ,Uf;fpwJ. mJ vspjhd xd;wy;y. jpUk;gpg;ghHf;Fk;NghJ ntl;fg;glf;$ba xd;Wk; ,y;yhjgb vd;tho;f;ifiar; nrytpLtNj ehd; tpUk;Gtnjy;yhk;....... rPf;fpuj;jpy; vdf;F taJ 39 MfptpLk;. ,d;Dk; vd;d mjpfkhf kPjpapUf;fpwJ? vd;gNj.
,dptUk; fhyk; FWfpdjhdgbahy;> kidtpfSs;stHfs; kidtpfspy;yhjtHfs; NghyTk;........ ,Uf;fNtz;Lk; vd;W vOjpdhH gTy;. mtrukhf my;yJ jtwhf topfhl;lg;gl;L jpUkzj;jpy; <LgLjy; ,sk; rP\d; xUtidf; fHj;jUf;F kpf mjpfkhfg; gad;glf;$ba ghijapdpd;W gphpf;fg; gprhR ifahSk; fUtpahfptpLfpwJ. gpwH nry;yh ,lq;fSf;Fr;nrd;W topfhl;l ehl;lq;nfhz;bUe;j rpyH fpwp];Jitkl;Lk; Nrtpf;Fk; Copaq;fisj; jpUkz ehspy; ,oe;Jtpl;ldH.

fpwp];Jitg;gw;wp midtUk; Nfs;tpg;gl Ntz;Lk; vd;w mtH rpj;jj;ij epiwNtw;Wk;gb jLf;Fk; giftd;........ jpUkzk;. jpUkzk; Njtdhy; mUsg;gl;lJjhd;. Mdhy; flTSila rpj;jj;jpw;F mJ jilahf mike;JtpLk;NghJ ,J jtwhf ifahsg;gLfpwJ. Ntw;W ehLfSf;Fr; nry;yj; jpl;lkhf miof;fg;ngw;Wk; jq;fNshL gpizf;fg;gl;Nlhuhy; jLf;fg;gl;L me;j miog;Gf;F ,zq;fhky;Nghd gyiu- Mz;fisAk;> ngz;fisAk;- ehk; Rl;bf;fhl;lKbAk;. xd;Wk;- tho;f;ifj; Jizahf Njtd; mUSk; MrPHthjKk; $l- xUtuJ tho;f;ifiag;gw;wpj; Njtd; nfhz;Ls;s Nehf;fj;ijAk; jLf;ff;$lhJ. ,d;W fpwp];Jit mwpahky; Mj;Jkhf;fs; mopfpd;wdH. Vnddpy; NjtDila rpj;jj;jpw;F Nkyhf md;Gf;FhpatHfs; Kjy; ,lk; ngw;Wtpl;ldH. (nt];yp vy; f];w;wh/g;rd;).

jpUkzk; nra;ahjpUg;gJ tpUk;g;glj;jf;fJ vd;gJ NtnwhUtUk; nrd;wwpahj GJ ,lq;fSf;Fr; nry;YNthiug; nghUj;j mstpy; rpwg;ghf cz;ikahdJ. Kd;dzpapw; nry;Yk; Mz;fSk; ngz;fSk;> jhq;fs; epahakha; mEgtpf;ff;$ba ,d;gq;fis kl;Lky;y> tho;tjw;F NjitahditfisAk;$l ntWf;fNtz;bajhapUf;fyhk;. f\;uq;fs; rfpg;gJk;> ey;y NghH tPuuhapUg;gJk;> ,t;Tyff; fhhpaq;fspy; rpf;fpf; nfhs;shjpUj;jYk;> vt;tpj ghuj;jhYk; jilglhky; ge;jaj;jpy; XLfpwtHfshapUg;gJk; mtHfsJ flik. mJ xH cj;jpNahfk;> xU njhopy;> rpwg;ghd Nritf;F mgpN\fk;.

,e;j miog;igg; Nfl;L ,zq;FNthUf;F cWjp $wg;gl;Ls;s gyd; cz;L. ,NaR nrhd;dhH: nka;ahfNt cq;fSf;Fr; nrhy;YfpNwd;... vd; ehkj;jpdpkpj;jk; tPl;ilahtJ > rNfhjuiuahtJ> rNfhjupiaahtJ> jfg;gidahtJ> jhiaahtJ> kidtpiaahtJ> gps;isfisahtJ epyq;fisahtJ tpl;ltd; vtNdh> mtd; E}wj;jidaha; mile;J> epj;jpa [PtidAk; Rje;jhpj;Jf;nfhs;thd; (kj;. 19:28-29).